KINTSUGI !!

In japan , when an object breaks , depending upon its value , the pieces are joined together with silver or gold dust laced adhesive. This adds beauty to the scar. This art is called KINTSUGI !!

May be we can use this technique to lace our personal lives , our relationships , our broken dreams.

I believe most things can be resolved or mended if parties are willing to let go of their restraining issues.

Ego and stubbornness are the main dividers and work against forgiveness , acceptance of individual preferences or sentiments and understanding.

Too often, we find ourselves unwilling to compromise and are rigid in our beliefs. Respect for that is lacking. We force others to accepts our ways. Mutual acceptance sometimes means letting go.

Action always speak louder than words in my book and sorry can appease the senses. But, remember, words are dangerous and when laced with anger, hate and regret may just defeat the art of kintsugi.

The silver and gold decorations then, just add to the visibility of the hidden hurt. --------- Bih@g ( All ©Rights reserved )