DAD....The Quiet Pillar of Strength within a family
- bihagtrivedi
- Jan 8, 2025
- 3 min read

If dads had a tagline, it would probably be like: "The Backbone of Bad Jokes and Broken Things." But behind every dad joke and "I’ll fix it later" lie the unseen, often underappreciated, layers of wisdom, love, and sacrifice. Let’s take a fresh look at why dads are essential, and yes, we’ll do it with a pinch of humor because that’s how dads would want it.
1. The Human GPS (But Only on Paper Maps)
While modern society relies on GPS and Google Maps, dads have their navigation system: stubbornness. If you’ve ever witnessed a dad confidently drive "just a little further" instead of stopping to ask for directions, you’ve seen the determination in its rawest form. It’s not just about finding the way, it’s about teaching us resilience, or at least that’s what they’ll claim later.
2. The Unsung Comedian
"Why did the scarecrow win an award? Because he was outstanding in his field!" Cue groans. Dads have this uncanny ability to deliver the most cringe-worthy yet lovable jokes. Why? Because humor is their way of breaking the ice, easing tension, and reminding us not to take life too seriously. Sure, they recycle the same ten jokes for decades, but isn’t that the consistency we all need?
3. The DIY Enthusiast
A dad’s toolbox is like the Bermuda Triangle of nuts, bolts, and screwdrivers. You’ll never understand how things get fixed, but they do (or at least duct-taped enough to last a few months). These moments teach us that perfection isn’t the goal, efforts and creativity are. Plus, who needs a professional plumber when Dad’s YouTube-certified?
4. Life Coach Extraordinaire
Dads don’t just coach your little league team; they coach life. Whether it’s financial advice delivered during a barbecue or career guidance disguised as a fishing trip, dads have a unique way of imparting wisdom when you least expect it. And yes, "Don’t spend it all in one place" counts as financial advice.
5. The Silent Support System
Dads might not always say, "I love you" outright, but you’ll see it in the way they ensure your car has gas or your bike tires are pumped. Their love language often involves acts of service and quiet sacrifices that go unnoticed until you’re old enough to appreciate them. It’s the dad way of saying, "I’ve got your back."
6. The Grill Master
It’s a universal truth that dads are drawn to grills like moths to a flame. Cooking sandwiches and flipping burgers is not just a skill; it’s a ritual. Watching a dad grill is like witnessing an artist at work, except the masterpiece is medium-rare and served with a side of coleslaw. And let’s not forget the signature "Dad flip" that’s half-showmanship, half-magic.
7. Fashion Icon (In His Own Way)
No one rocks socks with sandals or Hawaiian shirts like a dad. Their "I’ll wear what’s comfortable" attitude is a subtle lesson in confidence. It’s a reminder that being yourself is more important than following trends. After all, who else can pair cargo shorts with a kurta and still look ready to conquer the world?
8. Emergency Contact Number 1
Lost your wallet? Flat tire? Need advice on unclogging a sink? Dad’s your guy. He’s a one-man hotline for emergencies, big or small. And no matter how absurd your situation, he’ll answer with a gruff "What happened now?" followed by a solution you didn’t know you needed.
9. The Legacy Builder
Dads don’t just raise kids; they build legacies. Every life lesson, every sacrifice, and every moment spent with their children adds up to a foundation for the next generation. Whether it’s teaching you how to change a tire or showing you how to handle life’s curveballs, dads pass on values that last a lifetime.
10. The Love Story You Never Knew
Behind every dad is the story of a man who fell in love with his family in a way words can’t describe. He may not express it with grand gestures or emotional speeches, but it’s there in his actions, his protection, and his unwavering commitment.
So here’s to dads: the fixers, the jokesters, the life coaches, and the ultimate heroes. They might not wear capes, but they’ve mastered the art of wearing many hats even if one of those hats is embarrassingly oversized and covered in fishing lures. Hug your dad (if you can ) , laugh at his jokes (even if you’ve heard them a hundred times), and thank him for being the quirky, wonderful human GPS he is.
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